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Updates on my current situation~

2008-09-17T13:41:00.009+08:00

Busy

Busy!

BUSY!!

BUSY!!!

i'm really super busy after my trip back from TW..hais~
While waiting for my colleagues to dabao back food for me..i'm here to gv u guys some updates on my busy life now~

People who are close to me will know i'm tied up with work and house renovation!!
I totally got no time for myself AT ALL..not even to say go shopping or movies...*sobs*

WORK
*shorthanded
~Customer service x 2 resigned and only managed to get 1 replacement but she
is still in learning stage and have quite alot of careless mistakes
~Marilyn who actually coming in to help up 3days a week (turns up oso nv cum in due to her projects and sch)

Conclusion: All i have to do myself!! (From shipment to Quotations to Quality issues to delinquent of shipments) all i have to do all by myself...who can help me??!!

Beside all these, for those who doesn't know..i'm working in my in laws' company and working under my MIL (mother in law) = a big headache!

I think my ba zhi and hers are clashed cos she alwaz find faults with me
and wadever pple can do, i can't.

I say i don't wana attend to talks = gana butter
I say i wana go to Globaltronics (electronics exhibitions) = gana butter
and best thing is other colleagues go can but not me = why? bcos i need to stay in to do shipment and cover duties!!!!!! shit man!

Even i have sick for so many days..she nv even care about me and all she say to me was
"Charlene, u mus take care of ur health cos this period, marilyn not coming in and if u fell sick n take MC..who do the work???"

kaos~kaos~KAOS!!!

who care about how i feel?? who will understand my situation??

P.s,I'm a human!

Other colleagues just having a slight flu or wadsoever..she will show concern and ask them go see doctor and must rest well if still unwell..go back and rest.. *Damn unfair de lor*

Sickening!

Home Renovation

Ever since me n my dar gana chase out of house (reasons: our 2dogs) by my mil, we have been having a hard time~

1) Getting quotations from varies interior designer and contractors
2) MONEY (we have our loans from both our mums-in heavy debts for the next 3years)
3) Things we wanted and reserved "suddenly" got no stock->is either have to rechoose or wait
4) Things done not right (we have to go monitor almost every lunch time)
5) Bamboo flooring - last min say cannot be used
Etc~ too many to be listed...

There are so many things really need us to attend to them one by one ourselves...

*Headaches*tired*Mentally and physically tired!*

Finally..this weekend we will be able to move in to our *homesweethome*
I hope after moving in, i will have more time for myself and friends..
as during this period of time i really neglected alot of stuffs......
which i really hate so but i really got no choice at all...

well..i shall not elaborate on this...
Just want to apologise to a close friend of mine. Sorry. i really do.

Our Taiwan Trip 1stAug-5thAug

2008-08-11T13:30:00.006+08:00

小康妮 Connie Talbot

2008-08-08T10:26:00.002+08:00

2008-07-10T00:07:00.003+08:00

At the Bear Farm

2008-07-09T23:19:00.006+08:00

An Artwork from my BFF~

2008-06-23T09:23:00.002+08:00

Haha..Thanks for the hardwork of this end product~ though u nv tell me but i still noe bcos i "noticed" every actions of yours...HAHAHA...

*Appreciated*

Muacks~

Thanks girl~

2008-06-22T01:01:00.002+08:00

Day 4~19May2008

2008-06-22T00:43:00.004+08:00

Ephesians 4:26-27

2008-06-21T19:09:00.001+08:00

Happened to come across this phase while browsing through my "facebook" and think it really true and something can apply to my situation lately...

Ephesians 4:26-27

"In your anger do not sin": Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry,
and do not give the devil a foothold.

18May2008~ Day 3

2008-06-21T15:30:00.008+08:00

Farm Tomita~Hokkaido

2008-06-21T15:16:00.001+08:00

How tolerant are you with your spouse?

2008-06-19T13:28:00.003+08:00

How tolerant are you with your spouse?

Personally i feel that i'm consider quite tolerant already.
I can tolerate him to play games every single night (for wkdays) whole day for sunday and not doing anything.
I can tolerate him for being lazy.
I can tolerate him for drinking.
I can tolerate his lame excuses.
I can tolerate him to msn/sms to other zhabos.
I can tolerate him for his empty promises.

But somehow or rather i can't tolerate him looking at other girls.

Ok..lets be fair..i'm not referring to looking at chiobus or some sexy/funny dressing zhabos..
I'm refering to he will look at girls or women as long as the person is a FEMALE with 1pair of eyes,1 nose,1 mouth and walking pass him or standing at the roadside to wait for traffic or even walking to the lift..

he is looking...

his eyes is always looking...

and the skills is so bad that will always spotted by me...

No matter is pretty,ugly,skinny,fatty,tall,short,long hair,short hair..no regardless of what races, what ages..

WTH..i mean..what's that good to look at?

And please..not that they are pretty or wad..even aunty also see...
stop looking for a sec can?
funny lor..these pple... *no words to describe*

And what's more...
even honeymoon..he can also look at girls..not that i don't let him look totally..
Japanese girls who don't like to see?
but please bear in mind "its our once a lifetime honeymoon!!!"

If your spouse like that can you accept??

I believe is a NO.

I admit i do look at guys but fyi i only look at yandaos and angmohs.
Not that i will STARE at EVERY SINGLE GUYS THAT WALK PASSED ME for God sake!

Every human likes to admire at beautiful things!

But please people dun come and tell me "ok mah..he is just looking but his heart is with you what.."
Cos i've been telling myself these whenever he looks at girls
but believe me you won't be calm if your spouse did that.

Worst, he can even raise his voice at you when you say/nag at him and
say what:

"humans born with eyes is for seeing things what"
"what's wrong with looking at girls!?"
"Don't tell me you don't look at guys?"..etc *kaos*

surrender totally!

MY FIRST BRANDED BAG

2008-06-17T11:58:00.004+08:00

FINALLY....
.
..
...
MY FIRST BRANDED BAG~~COACH

HERITAGE STRIPE TATTERSALL TOP HANDLE POUCH

Zip-top closure

Coated tattersall with leather trim

Fabric lining

11 1/4” strap

7” drop

9 1/4 (L) x 4 (H) x 3 3/4 (W)

Price: U$148

Style No: 41439

I had been eyeing this coach bag during my trip to Japan~haha..don't bear to buy it cos feel that it is quite ex..but since my hubi wana buy for me and i don't have any branded bag before and i realie love this design..hehe..why not right? LOL

So, i decided to ask Marilyn (my xiaogu aka hub's sis) 's bf who was at US to help me buy~ as was thinking might have sales over there..
however, its the "so-called" new design and its under Heritage model..so no discount...*sad*
After tax and rate conversion everything, it costs us SGD 215!!!! (kinda xintong)

But since i don't have any branded bag before and this is the first that realie catches my eyes...so i think its ok lah...hahaha!! *consoling myself*

Btw, i'm not type of person who fancy about branded stuff as i feel that its just a brand which is costly and is not 'A MUST HAVE' thing..actualie personally i feel that its just a normal bag (meb with a better quality or design) will only bring up your status or another word - SHOW OFF! other than that i don't know what are the reasons for those "branded siao" to throw their hard-earned money into those shops..

Why don't use the money for other stuffs? Or using that amt of money you can buy +/-100bags or go 1 bangkok trip? LOL

Aniway, i'm still happy and contented to have one which i really like it..and its a gift from my darling..lol =X

2008-06-08T23:54:00.003+08:00

At the Sake house~

2008-05-30T00:18:00.002+08:00

This "ball" will change color whn they r producing different sake or new type of sake

~In the Sake hut~

Day One~17May2008 ^^

2008-05-29T08:05:00.004+08:00

Finally after such a long wait (approximate 3mths+)~Here comes Our HoneyMoon trip~Japan!!!
Our Fight take off on 16May2008 at ard 11.40pm~
after a few hours of watching movie and slping..we were waken up by...the smell of our breakfast....

~Our Breakfast on plane~ ~Lets take with our 'hard like a rock' muffin lol~
~Up up into the sky! What a view to have while eating our breakfast~
~Yeah ^^V finally reached Japan after 6 1/2hrs!! ~
~Lovey Dovey begins their honeymoon journey~

~Our First Meal after reaching Hokkaido~

~Dessert after our meal haha..despite of the cold weather..we still unable to resist the power of their ice-cream~

Creative+Chio Creation~

2008-05-09T10:52:00.004+08:00

"Got" this from my bbf~ Alyssa~ (without her consent =P)
Its damn CHIO, CREATIVE and NICE la~! I love it!
Slowly admire her works and if you wana see more from this chiobu~ pls go to my "Link to my soulmates" section to view more~hahahaha..

Play-SG ~ Rox Forum!!

2008-03-15T16:37:00.007+08:00

Hi Ladies and Gentlemen,

May i now Strongly Recommend you a super 'DIAO' FORUM
PLAY-SG
http://www.play-sg.com/

This Website is set up by a group of Singapore Gaming LOVERS

~ of cos including my hubby ~ Dave is also known as t3hkor in the forum.

Dun hesitate to click on the link as this forum is virus-free and full of "Entertainments"! haha..

You can get more informations on gaming in there,
eg. on PS1,PS2,PS3,PSP,games selling/buying or even can join
their MASS ORDERS (purchasing games in huge Qty)
so as to get a much much more cheaper pricings compare to outside stores etc..

Basically anything under the sun (but nt M1 ..haha.. =X)

There's too much to say abt this forum..so go explore it yourself and give us your most sincere feedbacks..kindly support hor!

Especially if you are a Singaporean n you are hito n
fun-loving! HAHAHAHA =D

Helpers and Friends ^^

2008-03-03T22:46:00.004+08:00

Our bodyguard cum driver cum a/cs cum housekeeping~ lol

Wedding Dinner + day activities pics~020208

2008-03-02T13:16:00.005+08:00

Here's are some selective pics that i had chosen to show you folks~
Details and things happened on tat day shall update some other day..haha (too lazy to type) hees~

Funni faces by us~babes lol

Hubi and Ah du~

Great Smile~haha

Morning Session~020208

2008-03-02T01:02:00.002+08:00

Wedding Day~Activities!

2008-02-28T01:06:00.003+08:00

WEDDING Updates~!

2008-01-14T01:15:00.000+08:00

Hurray!! Finally got my soft-copy WEDDING photos!! haha~ ^^

Went to collect them on Saturday~12th Jan 2008~ and beside collecting our soft-copies..we oso collected our BED FRAME PHOTO!! HAHAHA! Its nice de lor~ *Artistic*

hehe..actualie i can't even put the slide photos in the previous post cos my darling sae

"so fast let pple see liao ah..." but i still put some of the pics as he didn't read my blog~i suppose~ hehe

Thou i'm anxious to show you all ALL my WEDDING PHOTOS~but shall revealed some and keep some for actual day~so that there's some "surprise" for you all~ haha! (If you wana see them, can ask from me "secretly" haha!)

Aniway, the photos in the previous post are original (meaning nothing being touch up,edited or wadever..)
Therefore, the end product of our photo album will be different from these as there will be touch up and designs and digital effects on them~
hehe..Realie looking forward to see them!!

Time realie passed fast~hmm..should be super fast~ as in abt less than 3weeks time my big day will arrived!! *Excited*
Don't reallie dare to think abt it as wait latr gt "butterflies in stomach" quoted by Zhen~ lol
meaning stomachache lor~ hahaha.. lame right? lame pple think/say lame stuffs~ =X haha!

So, i only hope things will go smoothly and to all my bridemaid and jiemeis~ please come out with sabo ideas to sabo my hubby to be kays?? *F5! F5! FASTER!!* hahahaha

Right now..we are still thinking of our march-in songs~ and we had 1 in mind le which is

haha! should be playing for our 2nd march in as for the 1st march in i wana to play something more romantic and touching songs~ haha!

Anybody gt any in mind? pls let me noe~ Thanks! *bow* ^^

Check out Our Wedding Slide Show!

2008-01-13T02:47:00.001+08:00

My thoughts of Youngsters

2007-12-11T20:55:00.000+08:00

Humans
Especially youngsters

I'm realie puzzled why nowadaes younsters got no sense of

RESPONSIBILITY
INDEPENDANT
INITIATIVE
INCONSIDERATE

And they always sae "I hate LIARS the most" but yet they are the ones that LIED the most!

Wads the problem with all these people??

PLS be RESPONSIBLE to what you are going to do or had done!

If not, i don't think you will success in your life if you don't change.

071209~Wedding Photos Chosen!

2007-12-11T20:40:00.000+08:00

Folks..i had seen and chosen my WEDDING PHOTOS~071209! All are very nice! Didn't expect the photos will turn out to be SOSO NICE!

However, inorder to have more nice photos..you got to pay more lor..

$3000 is the AMOUNT we had PAID OUT!

Heartache + happy was the feeling after the dai jia given..

But i rather pay more now than to regret for my whole life as its a once in a lifetime thing~
e memories of you and your loved ones taking photos for your/OUR wedding!
Also,i will feel more heartache to see our photos (not chosen) to be "Recycled" away! *Everything will be gone~*

So, i'm still happy that we had made the right decisions! thou lots more(Nice de) are not selected...but bobian..fiancially limited...

However, we are looking forward to look at our "end product" after the designer finished editing/decorating our Wedding Photos~Album!

OUR PHOTOSHOOTING~23Nov2007

2007-11-25T20:33:00.000+08:00

23Nov2007~Time: 10am

We went to Z-Wedding's sister company~Satiago for our indoor/studio photoshooting!

Started with me~Angela (My Makeup Artist) helped me to put on makeup and get my KOREA costumes! hahaha~

After getting dressed,she helped me to style my hair and she put 2 "chopsticks" on my head = Korean style! lol! And she keep saying me realie look like 1 after the dressed up and hairdo! HAHA! happy xia~ whereas my darling~ lol..i commented he looked like a "Song cai tong zi" haha meaning those kid wearing red "du dou" type? lol..damn funny! But i really like my korean style makeover! haha..

Our Photographer~ David who is quite professional i should say..the moment he hold his camera he will guide and lead you and even will have his ways to make u smile~giving him ur best smile~ heez!

Total i had 5makeovers for my 5different outfits: Korean,2evening gowns (Pink + black laces, gold + blace laces),Actual gown and lastly outdoor gown!

Here's are some pics of my makeovers : ~

**Nice bo?? Secretly taken in e changing room =X**

**Makeover for my evening gown**

**Do i look like a bride now?**

Haha..how do i look like after the makeover? lol..Above pics are taken in my dar's car on our way out for outdoor shooting!

Themes or places for our outdoor shootings~

1) Old house Theme~ location: 1 super eerie place ard mohammad sultan road~
2) Greenery Theme~ location: labordor park~
3) Beach and Sunset Theme~ location: Sentosa!~

It was fun but the poses were limited..haha!
For the 1st location~its was realie very eerie and full of crawling and flying creatures! Its scary xia~ its a deserted place with alot of old decor and old stuffs left behind by the people who used to stay there..and fyi its illegal to enter in as it was "fenced" up according to the David.. =S
And i had to pose and stand near those creepy walls...yucky! But we know the photos will turn out be very nice~ so got to sacrifice abit lor.. hahaha.. and funny is David still sae..my expression was like as if i'm scared or being frightened by something..lol whoever go there will be scared ok..haha!

Before reaching Sentosa, i actualie had vomitted in the car~ i think is due to not enough of oxygen as i was sitting at the back due to my bulky dress and the corset of the gown seems to grip hold tightly to my back and waist..*suffocating* and i didn't eat much so i think plus abit of gastric and then finally....vomitted out...bleah~ but lucky that i still can manage to finsih my photoshooting at Sentosa~if not will be a waste..as the sunset was beautiful! Very Beautiful!! haha!!

Photos will be ready for us to choose in 2weeks time~ ^^ hehe..hopefully all photos will turn out great!! haha~ *Anxious+looking forward*

Also, me and my hubi are real satisfied with our photographer and Makeup Artist! So, realie Thank God for that! Heez..

After Getting Back Home~

**Darling in HuoDa's Hairstyle!**

~Chiobu + Yandao~lol

**Acting Fierce**

**I like this Pic^^**

Trial Makeup+new haircut~

2007-11-24T11:37:00.000+08:00

Here's some photos of my trial makeup and my latest haircut~requested from my makeup artist~Angela (She's pro and nice！**highly recommended**）

Angela trimmed my brows and tried a "light" makeup on me
My actual wedding gown which they mixed up and didn't decor anything to it..

**My new hair cut**

Genting Trip~081107~101107

2007-11-14T21:21:00.000+08:00

***See? How happy we are? ^^***
***Finally reached Genting after accident and many hrs of driving/car journey***
Our Genting Trip = Our FIRST TIME travelling overseas TOGETHER!! wow! haha!

i believe many people must be thinking we had been together for almost 7YEARS sure travel to MANY places together..but very sad to say..its our first trip...

BUT NOT LAST!!

Cos we will be travelling together in the Near Future! No doubts abt it! haha! You can see it on our faces~ WE ARE HAPPY DE!

Genting..hmm...my last time i went was in Pri 6! haha~ and e most unforgetable incident was i actualie wore 7tops!! haha~ power right?? all i rem is COLD~~~ =P

ok back to our trip..haha! It was a happening and fun trip! happening was becos we actualie
met a serious accident..its was ard 6am++ and it started to rain heavily..and was travelling at a fast pace on e highway towards Malaysia custom..

Infront of us was a cab dashed through a BIG pool of water n splash so high! i was thinking if we go pass this the water sure "swallowed" our car..

But the next moment..all we know is..our car SKIDDED!! left turn right turn left turn right..countless times! spinning n spinning~ freak~ lol.. but i see dar turn his steering wheel as if he's playing his ps3 games~ haha..

1st thot? nthing! jus hope the car faster stop n nobody is hurt!

lucky it was morning so there ain't many cars and the car stopped after hitting the boots against the "metal barrel" thing beside the roadside..so dangerous sia!

but Thank God and Thanks to my dar's fast reaction and remain calm
when things happened...if not i can't imagine wads gonna happened next~

Reached Genting after 4+ almost 5hrs of car rides...the view was superb! haha! and it actualie not very cold as i expected..(but my advise was dun step out of the hotel at night cos its freaking cold~~) lol

***~Pic of SiSi, Ah Du, DarDar & Me~***

***Nice Scenery right? haha~ I think my photo-shooting skill is not bad~!***

At Genting, there's nothing to much to buy actualie..and all are quite ex i should say..and all not "MADE IN GENTING" lol (Yes..my fren said was Right! haha!) So, basically whats fun and happening were :

1) Their Outdoor Themepark!

(We tried e Pirate Ship, Matahari (Ferry Wheels~Nice Scenery!), Dinosaurland (Its boring~looking at "fake" dinos~lol but scenery was superb! above pic taken there while the boat "rolling"), Rolling Thunder Mine Train, Sungei Rejang Flume Ride (Scariest of all!), Spinner, etc..

Here's their outdoor themepark map~

2) Casino ~ Tats me and my dar first time entering the Casino! lol.. **Mountain Turtle**

So, we tried the jackpots (kinda dumb and boring~its like ur $ is in the hand of machine and basing on luck), however, i find the Roulette is quite fun and if you did ur "homework" it actualie quite easy! but like i sae u still gt to dependant on ur luck!

***IMPORTANT***

Gambling is not healthy unless you know how to control! and u mus set a certain amt aside eg. S$100 den aftr tat no matter win or lose..can't change anymre $ but mus hav determination and discipline lah! Like me seldom gamble person~feel heartache xia~ after the lost..but my dar sae if i wana play den go ahead n play dun scare but if i dun wana play or feel heartache den dun gamble..hmm..i think its quite true~ and he said actualie i gt the luck cos whenever i guess i guessed correctly! but whn i bet myself or like too confidence will lose..so moral of the story~ dun gamble! hahaha!!!

On our way back, i experienced "guan chang hei an" meaning there's darkness side in law.. which means policeman in malaysia r bad guy in disguise~ they will hide somewhere in the expressway and took pics of u speeding and they will stop you in the middle of the road!! and claimed tat you had speeded and how u wan to settle the case? (meaning "how much $"u wana give to settle the case?) realie is jian de lorz~~~ den my dar gt to like act humble and asked him to give chance den e "policeman" will pushed his booklet to him and its like no choice gt to give him RM50 to "settle" the case..lame right? and the lamest thing is we met this kinda situation 3times!! imagine how long they had been hiding and how secretive they are~ sai de lah~

but its like bobian~ lol but lucky nothing bad happened on our way back except this..

i mean as long as all are safe and sound is e most important de!!

Overall, its a FUN and ENJOYABLE trip!! =D

Tips to Genting: Rem to bring lip moisturizer and face moisturizer!! cos the weather der will caused your skin to bcum very very dry!!

Choosing of My Dar's Suits, my outdoor n actual gowns!

2007-11-13T23:13:00.000+08:00

This is my finalist outdoor gown~for outdoor photoshooting (top = front view)
(back view of my outdoor gown)

My Finalist Actual Gown~! ^^

Hi guys..haha! so sorry for the back-dated posts..haha..was busy being ah sum as per mentioned in my previous blog! haha..plus my dar nv bring back his laptop for me to upload my pics from my hp! hehe...

Above are finalist gowns of mine~Actual and outdoor Gowns!

For the Actual gown, the top is full of lacey thing but my fashion designer~Mr Eddie said he will "plant" on many glitters and some decor for me..haha! (after me n my dar keep complaining of their top if can be like the previous actual gown we had chosen and matched with this finalist gown's bottom will be perfect! haha!)

Don't think we are choosy cos actualie i got 1 mtm gown tat i can actualie assigned them to design n MAKE 1 brand new for me...haha! but since off the rack can get something i like then i dun mind lah...u noe..hehe..*i'm a nice person* lol

As the outdoor..it can either be halter or tube style and the back of the gown is translucent..lol

Also, there's a cutting at the back and some decor at the bottom of the gown..so not too bad u see...at least is not totally plain or unable to see anything..hehe!

Hopefully after they alter the gown and "modified" it will look even nicer on me! haha!

Btw!!! i can slimmer compared to the previous time i tried those gowns..haha! u should look at my dar's face when ALMOST ALL the gowns Mr Eddie gave me i'm able to fit! and aftr taking measurements..i had down ard 1cm at my hip and waist! haha BUT not my boobs!!! yippie!

happy xia!

however,their suits for groom is super limited!! either black or white, either tuxedo or a super plain V cut suit. n best thing is we gt to bring our own shirts to match!!! Best right? omg!

Haha! also, when i asked Eddie beside kua~ what other costumes they have...

he named me kua~ japanese style~ korea style~ (afew more but not realie alot of variety)

but i chosen KOREA STYLE!!! haha! And he look at me and said OK! COS YOU GOT THE KOREAN LOOK!!! HAHAHA! trust me i happy like a fish lor!! haha...and my dar keep asked him back.."she will look like korean meh?? haha..i thot like c h i n a....lol" feel like boxing him man! haha! but luckily Eddie keep telling him "Yes ah..she LOOK LIKE KOREAN AH!!!" lol

Right now i only can pray that for my trial on 20thNov will turn out great

and most importantly on 23rd Nov~ my actual photoshooting day~!!

God Bless~hope everything will go smoothly!!! ^^

Household Chores~

2007-10-20T01:34:00.000+08:00

Most pple must be thinking its a tough thing or tiring thing to do..me thought so too..
and worst..i'm that type of person who don't do sweeping,mopping,washing of clothes,hanging of clothes,ironing and cooking! Cooking~i only know how to cook maggie mee and spagetti!

But after these few days without maid life..i got the chance to do houseworks~was thinking it must be very difficult and tough..as i got to do all by myself without any help or guidence by others.. My first attempt, feeling was..Great! Although i will feel tired as i got to wake up earlier to handwash stuffs and start the washing machine, and at lunch time i got to rush home to hang clothes (so that the clothes will dry) and to clear our 2babies' poos and urine..*Sweat* haha..and got to rush back office again, soon after knocked off, got to rush back home to take down clothes and ironing,sweeping/mopping,cook DINNER (Rice+Meat+Carrot) for the 2babies!
hello! First time in my life i ever cook RICE!! haha..

And i'm so proud of myself! heez..no joke..actuallie beside proud of myself, i feel satisfaction and e best part is i think i'm like a "xian qi liang mu" lol! Never had this feelings before..and never ever think i will be able to do that! By doing all these, i find the woman in me~ Actualie i'm able to do these! haha.. meb its bcos last time i alwaz see my ah ma doing..so i got the idea of doing chores..and e main reason, i think is bcos of my darling..he is the main motivation i have for doing all these! Without him, i think i won't be able to do all these..not that he's helping me do but is e thought of him makes me wana go further~do whatever i can..to solve his problems..
Can i say i qualify as a wife? lol..

Though..in life..there's always got unpredictable stuffs happening each day..with or without reasons.. Feeling~is something that will come and go, go and come..you have totally no control of it! Things that are able to do are so little..as you do not know how to....What i think now is..to do whatever i can..as much as i can..to salvage it! If you treasure and Cherish a relationship alot and don't wana lose it or give up~both parties gota to try all means to save it! If you really love the person, that special person in your heart..whom you can't live without, then nothing is impossible to do or say~to bring back the feelings you and your loved ones ever had..!

"I LOVE YOU" this 3words is very common words often said between couples..but it realie means alotalot..at least to me...Folks,its a very fortunate thing to hear your loved ones said this 3words to you~so pls treasure it and don't take it for granted as you won't know when will be the last time hearing it~

220907~My Dar's 24th Birthday~!!!

2007-09-24T23:07:00.000+08:00

Shit~I'm 24 liao..HAhahaha...

Birthday Ice-Cream FOC frm Swedsen~!
Getting in position to blow candle~

Ok its a late post for 220907 ~ My Darling's 24th Birthday~!

Haha..it was due to no lappy to upload pics as above..

We went to Marina~Thai Express to eat our fav Fried Egg with Fresh prawns and steam rice (Dar's fav), Stuffed taopok (Our fav), Prai Thai Pati (something like tat~my fav!) haha..and we only paid for $10!!! (Cos we signed up their member n gt this birthday $15 voucher)
Then after that we went to walk ard~for ard 15mins? haha..den we went to secret recipe but their cakes tat day wasn't impressive so we decided to give it a miss and headed to SwedSEn~!!!
And i rem something like on bdae gt promo or wadsoever so i asked the waitress..and actually they got this FREE birthday ice-cream on birthday (T & C is to present your IC..tats it!) HAha..
But ended up we still ordered 2 Sticky Chewy Chocolate ice-cream~!! **Yummy**
HAHA..and total spent on food is only $27!! Super Worth it lor!!
After makan~ we went to watch Its a funny + quite touching show lah~ haha.. Worth the money oso~! HEhe..This year i never buy very ex stuffs for my dear..only a sunglass n a bag...actualie bought a hp for him but duno can be counted in anot lah.. =P Just hope he enjoyed his SPECIAL DAY with me and small presents from me~! hahaha

*P.s, Two persons together doesn't mean have to spend alot = happy! IF 2 parties enjoy each other company = happy!

Conclusions: When you realie love that person and willing to spend your life with that person..slowly you will think of your partner 1st..
(VEry good eg. Spending money~before buying something that you actualie can save than buying cos you dun realie need so ex stuffs or so many unneccessary things..and the reason is just bcos you wana save up abit for your partner! thou some pple might think its ok or if he/she loves me,he/she will buy this or that for me..wadsoever..but in the end~things dun work out this way..)
Trust me....When you know how to save more than spending..your spouse will actualie loves you more~!! haha..however,shopping once in awhile is a very gd way to destress!! LOL! Once in awhile ok~ and not spending more than you can afford~!!! Spend Wisely folks~

~2nd Selection of my Gowns~

2007-09-24T22:51:00.001+08:00

Here's are some of the Wedding gowns and evening gowns i had tried on 210907~ n had confirmed 2 of them~ Think they are nice~ haha..actualie i still got 1 more evening gowns (which will be my actual day gown is in gold but with black laces on top of it..and had a gold tail behind me! lol)

Its very elegant but my only worry is the black laces...(old pple dun like/can't accept you see..haha) But thou its my wedding~i hope i can please everyone~ (sounds so wei da~)haha!

And right here..would like to take the opportunity to thank my beloved friend cum sister~ ***Alysc aka XiaoFen*** haha!

Thank you for being there~*Realie Appreciated~!!*

艾鈞偉--到不了

2007-09-20T19:55:00.000+08:00

20070729 校園歌喉戰年度總冠軍艾鈞偉--到不了

Happy Sunday~Yang Cheng Jun

2007-09-20T13:36:00.000+08:00

20070617 校園歌喉戰敗部冠軍年度

十強資格賽高雄應用科技大學

楊程鈞--其實還愛你

0812 楊程鈞VS.張晉樵@妹力pk賽

Its Yang Cheng Jun again..haha..but i really enjoy the way he sang..lol..
Don't roll eyes folks! hehe..will upload other contestants' video clip soon...veryveryvery soon...lol

Cutie lil thing~! lol

2007-09-10T19:45:00.000+08:00

My Strapya had Arrived!!

Look at my Cutie lil Chip~! lol..

2nd Gown tried~

2007-09-09T12:53:00.000+08:00

So sorry..didn't know whats wrong with my blog..always can't upload all the pics at 1 time..but i think you guys will be patience right? to see me wearing GOWNS!!! haha!

1st Trial ~ Trying of Gowns~!

2007-09-08T14:58:00.000+08:00

Yst was my 1st day and 1st time trying of wedding gowns! Feelings? Mixed. Gowns are very heavy! haha..much heavier than i expected! haha.. and they are difficult to wear n zip! haha..

1st attempt..its weird..even my darling sae i look weird..lol.. seems like dun "match" the gown..haha! duno wads missing or wrong..haha..meb is my bodyline - too long! hahahaha..

I had tried different types of gowns..from tube gown--->halter-neck gown--->lacey--->"vera wang" style--->plain--->silky material.. lol

The guy, named Eddie who serves us is quite gd and friendly. He chose many gowns for me to choose and try~he's a designer and said he will find some nice ones for me to try on my second trial~21/09/07!

Here's some gowns i had tried on~

My Bracelet~

2007-09-08T14:17:00.000+08:00

Hi everybody....

HEre's my Si dian Jin's bracelet~!

Is it nice!? haha..
I like it quite alot! =D

~Cruelity~

2007-09-02T23:19:00.000+08:00

Had read an email sent by my friend last Friday Morning...

It was about people in Canada actualie killed SEALS as a SPORT! wth..

Why are they doing all these to these cute, defenceless and harmless SEALS!?

Inhuman. Insane. Cold-blooded. Cruelity. Sick.

Whacking Seals to death by using a bat as a Sports is the lousiest reason/excuse i ever heard!

There are so many different types of sports in the world and they are choosing this as their sport!? Stop bullshitting with me!

I think these people are unbalanced and sick. they simply like to kill and see blood.

Also, there are pple who likes to abuse animals like dogs,cats,birds,rabbits etc.

What's wrong with these people!?

Using nails to nail them? pour hot boiling water over them? Beating them? Throwing them?

will these acts make you happier?!!

These animals (creation of God's hand) were not for you people to abuse them but to love and dote them.

If you don't like them, simply leave them alone. Stop your itchy hands and legs against them.

I suggest law should come out with some severe punishment against these sick people such as jailed for 5years up and plus caning!! (Its necessary! so as to let them taste how is it like to be hurt and whip) And i think it will be a very good punishment for these offenders and set as a reminder to all people out there!

P.s: If you want to keep a pet ; Love them with responsibility.

~Tolerance~

2007-08-30T00:05:00.000+08:00

Today's Topic ~ Tolerance
I believe each and every person will have their own tolerance level.
As for mine, i can say my tolerance lvl is quite high..as in i won't get angry easily or show my temper.
Volcano - is a very appropriate word to describe me.
Before Volcano eruption, it will store lava until a limit and it will explode out.
Lava = Mistakes or incidents or attitude or Bullshitting
Why i say so..is becos i'm that type that i'll be nice to everybody but if you keep stepping on my tail..1st time..2nd times..3rd times..even 4th or 5th times..until i can't tolerate i'll explode and once explode..it will be terrible. *Warning: Don't try me~! haha!*

And please don't think you are "elderly" or "higher rank" than me means what you said are all correct and doesn't mean you can twist your words infront of me. Cos i won't give face or what.
Don't think that i'm nice means i'm good to bully or "sick cat" cos you are damn wrong! I'm nice bcos i'm nice so pls don't test my limitation cos you won't want to see volcano exploding.

Lastly, *Sneeze* I'm allergic to Bullshitting and shit people. hahaha~

Note: If you dislike one person, either you ignore that person completely or if you got no choice and have to face this person everyday..then i suggest..don't keep reminding yourself how bad this person is but to treat him/her as per normal..then you will live your days more happier~ *Hating someone is not a big deal and in fact make yourself unhappy..forgiveness is the key to happiness and will definately get prettier! haha..

~My Grandfather's Story~

2007-08-26T23:50:00.000+08:00

That day..zhen and my other colleagues were chit chatting..and we talk abt zhen's baby and suddenly talk abt my grandfather...and tat makes me realie sad...cos i really miss him alot alot....

Abt 6years back, my healthy ah gong fell sick..and passed away in old folk's home located at Katong..with no one accompany and see him for the last time...
I rem so clearly..at ard 9pm+ that night..the phone rings and there's an unfamiliar lady's voice telling us that ah gong had passed away..(all were shocked by the news) and headed straight down to the home. That was the FIRST TIME someone so close to me had leave me FOREVER!! i was so lost..didn't know how to react at the point of time..but once i reached there..i broke down...there's no word to describe how i feel at that moment.
Bonely. Pale. were the words to describe the last look on my ah gong. there's barely fresh and his face was no longer the same as he was alive. i was not afraid but sad and angry.
Angry is bcos i feel that if my parents and my aunt had nv send my ah gong to home..i believe his conditions will not get worsen and he will definately be happier.. did i mention i volunteer to take care of him? Yes. I did. but they disagreed. What else can a sec 4 student do at that time? I can only feel unfair and angry. Unfair abt how his own daughters can be so mean and heartless..before he fell sick..everyday he went to my parents' shop and slog from morning til night..but what he get frm them? Nothing but harshness. Nobody would be happy to be sent to Home. i blame myself for not able to convince or stop them.
At the wake, i think i'm the only one that cried from the very first day til the very last day of his wake and even now and then..whenever i think of him or dreamt of him..i cried.
He's one of my loved ones who dote me since i was born. He's always so kind and happy although he always quarrel with my ah ma but i can say he's a very good ah gong!

Char's advise: Treasure your loved ones when they are around and don't live life with regrets.
And Most importantly, if you don't want your kids to do the same to you, you must jolly well set a good example. DO NOT SEND YOUR FOLKS TO HOME. *Warning*

My 4 dian Jin~

2007-08-26T21:59:00.000+08:00

Finally~ My 4 Dian Jin~

4 Dian Jin = Wedding accessories from Husband's family

= TeoChew Culture

Supposingly,It should consists of Necklace, Earrings, Bracelet and Ring.

But now, they are not so particular that you must get 4pcs of Jewellery..haha..Just like me.

As i don't think ring is that impt cos i already got 2rings (1 proposed ring and another is wedding ring) from my hubby..how many fingers do i have!? haha...its more than enough. =)

Actualie apart from the pic above i still got 1 more very chio bracelet but had brought to alteration..so will upload again whn i collect back after 10days! hehe..so pls be patient~ haha

MAke a guess~ how much in total!? Actualie i dun expect my future mother-in-law to be so generous to buy me so ex stuffs..i was thinking maybe maximum 5K or lesser..but she bought me 1 set (3pcs) at 7K+! OMG. its so So SO ex!! However, i feel so happy..at least they think i'm "important" and worth the money..and most importantly she asked me to choose whatever i like and not "you choose something not so ex huh..not more than how much huh..blah" wadsoever..haha actualie as long as got the heart can liao..i more forcus on how's the attitude of this person than how ex is the stuff this person give..*you xin jiu hao* so conclusion is..HAPPY~! haha~

游鸿明-当刺猬爱上玫瑰

2007-08-20T12:26:00.001+08:00

游鸿明-当刺猬爱上玫瑰

词:李焯雄曲:游鸿明编曲:洪敬尧和声:谢文德游鸿明

你越努力靠近越刺痛自己

爱意里的敌意一身的讽刺

得不到的最美不开不枯萎

炙热的成灰对不对

不能依偎就像刺猬爱上玫瑰

曾以为直来直往才不虚伪

我们是同类却不算一对

始终学不会用粗糙的方法给彼此安慰

不能依偎就像刺猬爱上玫瑰

当防卫是自我的基本配备

心里还有谁算不算一对

脆弱是种罪所有伤悲都像是借题发挥

我何尝不爱你却伤了自己

生命是否锯齿痛才是真实

失去的最珍贵口是却心非

白昼后天黑对不对

就像倔强的刺猬爱上了多心的玫瑰

当寂寞爱也无法碰触包围

心里愈有愧愈说无所谓

心里愈疲惫感觉愈钝反应却愈发尖锐

HaPPy SUndaY

2007-08-18T18:03:00.000+08:00

楊程鈞校園歌喉戰月冠軍--

當刺蝟愛上玫瑰

Since this is my FIRST post, i had uploaded this video clip from YouTUbe!
This guy - Yang Cheng Jun is SO power..the skills he had and he's cute..haha.. =x
And all thanks to him if not i wun be able to know there's such a nice song sang by You Hong Ming (Original Singer).
Enjoy~! =D